Another thing that I want to talk about is the idea that the other guy can be more “dominant” than you are.
The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.
But ask yourself if those powers are relevant today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own - if you’re reading this, you probably have access to food and shelter. You’re all set.
Plus, it’s illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.
You’ll always end up losing if you attack another person because the police always win.
You are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON! if you are thinking about it.
Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
I recall all the girls I missed out on because I was afraid about some DUDE. And it makes me mad remembering that and knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!
You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn’t do, when the time comes that you’re on your deathbed. How painful it is to say “I haven’t approached that girl because I was scared of another guy,” or “I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy.”
I don’t want you to be like that.
So let’s look at this on a deeper level. Seeing another guy as more dominant means you don’t truly understand dominance.
You see, you instantly consider yourself NOT dominant when you’re concerned with who is more dominant. There’s a better focus.
Dominant men don’t think about who is dominant. To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.
So you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Instead of worrying about whether or not he’s more dominant than you, focus on the girls.
It’s proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn’t even know the guy - they just meet him.
Or if they do, he’s a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.
It’s rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
And aside from that, if he IS with one of the girls, then it will be a fair game because it means that he’s NOT with the other girls.
When you are concerned with who’s the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it’s questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.
Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don’t allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!